{"id":1459,"date":"2023-02-03T09:30:00","date_gmt":"2023-02-03T06:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/probatio.com.tr\/testicaret\/?p=1459"},"modified":"2023-03-01T00:32:55","modified_gmt":"2023-02-28T21:32:55","slug":"bir-hikaye-esliginde-kendime-bakis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/probatio.com.tr\/testicaret\/2023\/02\/03\/bir-hikaye-esliginde-kendime-bakis\/","title":{"rendered":"Bir Hikaye E\u015fli\u011finde Kendime Bak\u0131\u015f"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Merhaba de\u011ferli okur,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nas\u0131ls\u0131n\u0131z? Nas\u0131l gidiyor? \u0130\u015fler nas\u0131l gidiyor? Evdekiler nas\u0131llar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Birbirimize bu ve benzeri sorular sordu\u011fumuzda s\u0131kl\u0131kla \u201cNe olsun, nas\u0131l olsun, bildi\u011fin gibi, ko\u015fturuyoruz, yuvarlan\u0131p gidiyoruz, yo\u011funuz, felaket yo\u011funuz, s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 yok, ne yaps\u0131n O da ko\u015fturuyor, sorun yok\u201d deyip duruyoruz. Bu benim akl\u0131ma bir hik\u00e2yeyi getiriyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yunan mitolojisine g\u00f6re Korint kral\u0131 Sisyphos \u00f6yle bir d\u00fczen kurmu\u015f ki; bar\u0131\u015f, huzur ve mutluluk sonsuza dek s\u00fcrecekmi\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ancak tanr\u0131lar Sisyphos\u2019u, Thanatos\u2019u yani \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc zincire vurmakla su\u00e7lay\u0131p cezaya \u00e7arpt\u0131rm\u0131\u015flar. Cezas\u0131 da sonsuza kadar cehennemde kalmak ve koca bir kayay\u0131 omuzlar\u0131 ile s\u0131rt\u0131 \u00fczerinde ta\u015f\u0131yarak da\u011f\u0131n yamac\u0131ndan a\u015f\u0131r\u0131p tepeye ula\u015ft\u0131rmakm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sisyphos kaya\u2019n\u0131n korkun\u00e7 a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 alt\u0131nda var g\u00fcc\u00fcyle \u00e7abalayarak kayay\u0131 yama\u00e7tan tepeye \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r, ama kaya a\u015fa\u011f\u0131ya yuvarlan\u0131p, t\u00fcm a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131yla Sisyphos\u2019un s\u0131rt\u0131na d\u00fc\u015fermi\u015f. Sisyphos bir kez daha kayay\u0131 yama\u00e7tan tepeye \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r ama kaya tekrar a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 yuvarlan\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. Bir daha ve bir daha derken\u2026 bu hik\u00e2ye sonsuza dek s\u00fcr\u00fcp gitmi\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>K\u0131ssadan hisse\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130nsan beyninin kelimeler ile de\u011fil, imgeler ve simgeler ile d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp alg\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011fine dayanarak bu hik\u00e2yenin \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131nda biraz kendimize bakal\u0131m isterim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hik\u00e2yedeki d\u00f6ng\u00fc asl\u0131nda hepimizin hayat\u0131nda mevcut. Bir \u00e7emberin i\u00e7indeki hamster gibi bizler de s\u00f6ylene s\u00f6ylene, ko\u015ftura, yuvarlana ya\u015f\u0131yoruz\u2026\u00d6te yandan fark\u0131nda olmadan bu duruma;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Benim ba\u015f\u0131ma gelmedi, onun ba\u015f\u0131na geldi,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Burada olmad\u0131, orada oldu,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u015eimdi de\u011fil, o zamand\u0131,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ger\u00e7ek de\u011fil, hayal \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc, kurgu\u2026\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015eeklinde ki\u015fi, yer, zaman ve ger\u00e7eklik perdelerinin arkas\u0131ndan bakmay\u0131\/y\u00fczle\u015fmeyi tercih edebiliyoruz. Psikiyatrist Carl Gustav Jung\u2019a g\u00f6re \u00fclkelere ve zamana g\u00f6re farkl\u0131l\u0131klar g\u00f6sterse de \u00f6z\u00fcnde b\u00fct\u00fcn insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n bilin\u00e7 d\u0131\u015f\u0131 ortakt\u0131r; her birimiz biricik olarak yarat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olsak da b\u00fct\u00fcn insanl\u0131kla ortak bir bilin\u00e7 d\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 -kolektif bilin\u00e7 d\u0131\u015f\u0131- payla\u015f\u0131r\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7o\u011fu zaman kendimize kar\u015f\u0131 duygusal anlamda k\u00f6r\u00fcz, k\u00f6r olmay\u0131 tercih ediyoruz. \u00d6zellikle bizi zorlayan, \u00fczen, korkutan, endi\u015felendiren veya de\u011fer yarg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131za ters d\u00fc\u015fen s\u00fcre\u00e7leri g\u00f6rmezden geliyoruz. Bu bir anlamda ac\u0131dan, stresten ka\u00e7ma, kendimizi koruma refleksi. Ancak ka\u00e7maya ve ka\u00e7\u0131nmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bu duygular bilin\u00e7 d\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131zda fark edilmeyi, g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irilmeyi ve \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmlenmeyi bekliyorlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hik\u00e2yeye bu bilgiler \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131nda tekrar d\u00f6necek olursak;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ya\u015famda size kimler, neler y\u00fck oluyor?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Onu y\u00fck haline getiren ger\u00e7ekte nedir?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bu y\u00fck\u00fc nas\u0131l s\u0131rt\u0131n\u0131zdan indirebilir ve-veya nas\u0131l hafifletebilirsiniz?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bu y\u00fckten tamamen \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015fmeyi ne kadar istiyorsunuz?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bu yolda kendiniz i\u00e7in neler yapacaks\u0131n\u0131z?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00d6te yandan Gandhi\u2019nin \u015fu me\u015fhur s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc hat\u0131rlat\u0131p y\u00fcklerimizden kurtulmaya dilimizi de\u011fi\u015ftirmekle ba\u015flamaya davet ediyorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-verse has-regular-font-size\">S\u00f6ylediklerinize dikkat edin; d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinize d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u2026<br>D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinize dikkat edin; duygular\u0131n\u0131za d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr<br>Duygular\u0131n\u0131za dikkat edin; davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131za d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr<br>Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131za dikkat edin; al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131za d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr<br>Al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131za dikkat edin; de\u011ferlerinize d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr<br>De\u011ferlerinize dikkat edin; karakterinize d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr<br>Karakterinize dikkat edin; kaderinize d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u2026<\/pre>\n\n\n\n<p>Umar\u0131m hikaye e\u015fli\u011finde kendinize bakm\u0131\u015f, size ve ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131za fayda sa\u011flam\u0131\u015fs\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. Bu, kolektif bilin\u00e7 ve bilin\u00e7 d\u0131\u015f\u0131 alana, dolay\u0131s\u0131yla hepimize iyi gelecek de\u011ferli okur.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Merhaba de\u011ferli okur, Nas\u0131ls\u0131n\u0131z? Nas\u0131l gidiyor? \u0130\u015fler nas\u0131l gidiyor? Evdekiler nas\u0131llar? Birbirimize bu ve benzeri sorular sordu\u011fumuzda s\u0131kl\u0131kla \u201cNe olsun, nas\u0131l olsun, bildi\u011fin gibi, ko\u015fturuyoruz, yuvarlan\u0131p gidiyoruz, yo\u011funuz, felaket yo\u011funuz, s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 yok, ne yaps\u0131n O da ko\u015fturuyor, sorun yok\u201d deyip duruyoruz. Bu benim akl\u0131ma bir hik\u00e2yeyi getiriyor. Yunan mitolojisine g\u00f6re Korint kral\u0131 Sisyphos \u00f6yle bir [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1425,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[78],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-1459","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-ticarette-yazarlar"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/probatio.com.tr\/testicaret\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1459","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/probatio.com.tr\/testicaret\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/probatio.com.tr\/testicaret\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/probatio.com.tr\/testicaret\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/probatio.com.tr\/testicaret\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1459"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/probatio.com.tr\/testicaret\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1459\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1462,"href":"https:\/\/probatio.com.tr\/testicaret\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1459\/revisions\/1462"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/probatio.com.tr\/testicaret\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1425"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/probatio.com.tr\/testicaret\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1459"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/probatio.com.tr\/testicaret\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1459"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/probatio.com.tr\/testicaret\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1459"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}